What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 04:46
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3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
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26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
Has your wife made you a cuckold?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
Can someone write me a sex story?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
*** Random Questions ***
What defines the k'vanna of the Book of בראשית?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
The Ice Breaker Questions
Why would my husband cheat on me with an ugly fat woman?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
If you win, what will you make them do?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
How old are you? Male or Female?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
What made you recently say to yourself, “Wait. Really?”
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
How do you deal with a neighbor stealing?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
Please share Did you stop?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
What is your favorite position? Why?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
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4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
If yes, what?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
*** Questions About Me ***
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
29- How superstitious are you?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
Family Relation Age Play
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
Nothing too Serious
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Would you read them together?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
52~ What are your hobbies?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
39~ What are your love languages?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
Any that are a turn off?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
Any that are a turn off?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?